You Can Tell The Childhood of Any Adult…..By Watching Their Behavior
Humans are tribe based creatures who seek to mimic, copy and emulate the customs, rituals and ceremonies of their original family tribe. Although alcohol, drugs, wasting time watching TV, narcotics, junk food, medical drugs and “not reading” etc are physical products or physical habits………they all fall in the category of self abuse, misery, suffering, underachievement, addiction, mediocrity and chaos. How we behave on the outside.. is a mirror reflection of our emotions on the inside. As above, so below.
If a child grows up in a family home full of crisis, misery, suffering, fear, panic, terror and chaos……that “vibration” becomes their brand, deserve level or safe zone. You can always tell what a person’s childhood environment was like by how they act, behave and think as an adult. Here we see two adults being given positive reinforcement for recreating the “self abusive tone” that they were exposed to as children. I would wager (with confidence) that the parents of these two men were either smokers, drinkers, drug users or coffee consumers (potentially all four at once)……simply because nicotine, caffeine and alcohol all vibrate at the chaos and crisis frequency. This vibration is then sought by the child, who then grows up as an adult, who in turn has a magnetic attraction to products, services and even romantic partners that vibrate at the same chaos level of their original family tribe.
Dating or marrying someone like this could only be done by someone else raised in another chaos based environment, who in turn would only produce children of equally chaotic vibration. Adults like this purposely seek chaos as a act of respect to the unstable people who raised them. Adults like this reject more calm and successful ways of living because they associate changing for the better as isolation from their tribe and an insult to tribal leadership. Adults like this purposely seek chaos to bond with the chaos based tribe who dominated their formative years. No one wants to be a human mess like this deep down on a spiritual level but they were never shown how to be their best and they’re also not brave enough to walk away from their old tribe and into a better one……even if the pain in their lives decrease dramatically. In fact, people like this are so used to a chaotic and pain filled existence, that being calm or at peace feels extremely foreign to them and very uncomfortable. Ready to break out of the cycle yet? The act of recreating your chaotic childhood (in your adult years) when you don’t have to, simply because you’re too afraid to leave the dysfunctional herd…….is what self sabotage is all about.